I guess what hurts more is the fact that I realised the person may not be able to be my companion for life, and that the person would not be able to support me in my life ministries.
So how should I deal with that? Confrontational approach? I am not that type!
The only way is to escape from the problem! Not seeing that person!! Not talking to the person. That way, I won't be reminded of the hurt or the spiritual incompatibility with that person.
And the way I am going about this is hurting that person. Maybe that person doesn't know what is going on. Maybe that person is hurt by my sudden withdrawal. And in a way, I am hurting that person in return.
But I can't help it, as this is the only way that I can deal with it.
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those who fight and run away live to fight another day
I disapprove that you choose to run away and let her (hm, perhaps him...) suffers without her being aware of the problem. If you truly like him (hm, perhaps her), you won't let her suffer in whatever way (of coz i don't know the extent of the issue when making this comment). There are only two approaches: run away (coward!) or confront it. Confrontation doesn't necessarily mean aggression, but can be gentle emphasising open communication. I stress the importance of the latter in your case. You talk to him/her doesn't mean you have to accept him/her. Open your heart and drop your pride or reasoning (which aren't helping you obviously?) and calmly, slowly chat about it, what can you lose?
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