A person can be so contradictory. On one level she can be caring and kind and is a good friend to talk to when I'm in need. On the other hand she can be mean with the things she says about me, often in a joking way, without realising the hurt she is causing me with the things she says. And when I retaliate, she would get upset and hurt by my retaliation. If a person is your friend, you would respect that person, not make fun or put down that person.
And why doesn't she tell me certain things when they concern me deeply but tells me these stuff way after the event? If it is the other way round, she would have been upset if I had not told her.
Maybe that is why I will never consider her as more than a friend. Never. Never ever.
Sunday, December 17, 2006
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2 comments:
Inconsistency would be a better word.
You considered her before didnt you? :)
(3rd time im commenting bcoz it no seem to work. I hope I'm not spamming ur blog by accident)
greg if u give up after one little mistake then maybe ur friendship wasnt worth much anyways in the first place. wot happened to FORGIVE AND FORGET
o well
as u said it, u do the same thing to her wen u retatliate. can u say to me u never accidentally joked to sum1 else or to her and hurt her wifout realising it?
isnt listenin to u wen u need it a kind of respect? if she didnt respect u then i doubt she would bother listening.
take the advice u gave to me...
CONTROL UR EMOTIONS ;)
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