It started off with no words spoken. Our relationship with each other was communicated in feelings and emotions expressed through our mutual actions to one another. Of all the things we discussed, we never mention anything about our relationship with one another. Maybe we didn't think it was important, as we were living within the inner depths and realms of our emotions.
And then when I was hurt, and no longer able to confront her, all communications ceased dramatically. There were no expectations of an explanation. Maybe it wasnt important whether an explanation was needed, maybe we both knew that everything was over, feelings were being changed, and we no longer continued to live in the realms of our emotions. Maybe our emotions got a hold of us, without us really willing to accept each other in a way which we did not expect. Maybe we were too used to be individuals and tried to enforce our idealistic values on one another.
Maybe it is better this way as we may hurt each other more with the things we want to say.
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if u are set on this course of action wifout a single feelin of regret in ur heart then i think u should move on lor...
u no u ga la...perfectionist...but i guess in this area u haf to be content and happy
so maybe its time to make a choice
1) wait and move on
2) compromise on a suitable solution
3) change standards
duno
dun take offence if i say stuff wrongs
If you are scared of being hurt... confront it and let yourself be hurt. Only through this that you grow. In relationship this sort of things, if I have to be hurt when things need to be done even for a slim chance of success, I'll choose to do it and be hurt. Scars all the way, yes, but there's no regret.
Obviously personal opinion and may not be suitable for everyone.
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